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The Difference Narcissistic Personality Disorder Makes to Spellwork

Updated: Nov 21


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By Bran Alder


Narcissistic personality disorder NPD is a complex personality disorder characterized by an inflated sense of self importance a need for admiration and a lack of empathy it is essential for both practitioners and clients to understand how NPD affects and impact spell work this analysis which draws on Hoci Leahcimich's research and is framed within the teachings of Tenebris coven focuses on the impact of narcissistic personality disorder on magical practices


Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder


Grandiosity: A person with NPD has an exaggerated sense of self-importance and may possess a sense of entitlement. One can derive this from the assumptions these individuals hold which can also lead them to believe spells are guaranteed to work.


Lack of Empathy: Since there is an actual limited ability for the ordinary person to feel or accept the feelings of other people, this can be a factor or consideration in how them partakes in activities that involve numerous people or communities and spells. This lack of sympathy may sabotage the balance that is required for the magic to go on.


Desire for Admiration: Ninety percent of the clients may want to prove a point with the spell and seek approval, but they are fixated on outcomes rather than on the purpose of the true spell, which is more to be aimed at the moral values and concerns behind real-life magic.


The Relationship Between Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Spellwork

Narcissistic Personality Disorder and its Effects on Spellwork 1. Disruption of Energy Flow; One of the most obvious features of NPD is its excessive self-absorbedness, which in turn may actually subvert the energy exchange that is required for effective spellcasting. Magic often involves working in cooperation with others with shared intentions and that might not be possible for people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder. 2. Inordinate and inflated sense of self; As is common among people with NPD, they often have unrealistic expectations on what their spells can or should achieve. The absence of the expected captivating goals leads to disappointment and frustration. 3. Issues with group oriented spellwork; Rituals can be complex and may involve large numbers of people. In such circumstances, people possessing NPD may have difficulty connecting meaningfully with other members of the group because they fail to empathize with them. This lack of connection may reduce the spell energy and overall effectiveness of the spell.” 4. A tendency to exploit; Spell tricks and curses provide a non-narcissist person an avenue to practice and connect with their subsiding emotions. For eg; NPD practitioners can easily be manipulative and can use spells to control others, instead of doing so ethically and with pure intentions. Spellwork: Encourage group rituals and encourage participants to limit the amount of attention they allow themselves to focus on.


Strategies for Practitioners


Encourage Community Engagement: Foster a sense of community and collaboration in spellwork. Encourage clients to participate in group rituals, which can help balance their self-focus with the collective energy.


Set Realistic Expectations: Help clients understand the nature of spellwork and the importance of patience. Discuss the processes involved and emphasize that effective magic often requires time and consistent effort.


Focus on Self-Reflection: Encourage clients to explore their motivations behind seeking spellwork. Journaling or guided reflection can aid in cultivating self-awareness and empathy.


Establish Boundaries: Maintain clear boundaries in client-practitioner relationships to prevent manipulation and ensure ethical practices in spellcasting.



Conclusion


Understanding the dynamics of narcissistic personality disorder is essential for enhancing the effectiveness of spellwork for those affected. By fostering self-awareness, encouraging community engagement, and setting realistic expectations, practitioners can better support clients in navigating their magical practices. This perspective is informed by the research of Hoci Leahcimich and the teachings of Tenebris Coven. For a more in-depth exploration of how narcissistic personality disorder impacts spellwork, visit mental and check out related content on the Tenebris Coven blog, which will provide more detailed insights

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